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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-03 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #3256 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3256 ⌋

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[The Man From U.N.C.L.E.]


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[Ace Attorney]


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[personal profile] dancing_serpent 2015-12-04 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
I'd hella judge if he said "I don't want to perform oral sex on my female partner BUT GIMME ALL THE BLOWJOBS."

Why, though? I'm honestly curious. Preferences and "fairness" are two different things after all.
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[personal profile] gobbledigook 2015-12-04 09:19 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, it's tricky because I honestly can see myself agreeing with both sides on this one. Not willing to do something for your partner because you "find it disgusting", but not minding your partner doing it to you... sounds like it would be really demeaning to them, BUT withholding a sex act because you don't get something else you want in return seems a little... I don't know.

I can understand addressing the reason oral sex on women is a taboo, but at the same time I can't agree with forcing someone to do any kind of sexual act they don't feel comfortable doing. Even if someone makes a point to counteract the misogyny they learned growing up that doesn't translate to them being willing to do stuff in bed they just aren't into.
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[personal profile] dancing_serpent 2015-12-04 10:12 am (UTC)(link)
Very tricky, for the same reasons you mentioned.

Also, and that's TMI, so feel free to ignore - I never had sex, don't see myself ever having sex. But I'm curious, and I've watched porn. And while I find the idea of giving a blowjob unappealing, I could maybe see myself agreeing to having someone go down on me.