[ SECRET POST #3258 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3258 ⌋

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Comments

Don't do it!

[(Anonymous)]

Dear anons and users who have cut off a toxic person.

Don't look them up, don't contact them, don't think about them! Keep holding out its better for you

Re: Don't do it!

[iceyred]

Cosigned. Stay away, good people. Stay away from the cray-cray.

Re: Don't do it!

[lady_dragoon]

Signed. Even though it's really hard to do, and that's part of their abuse still working on you. Because when you've been trained such that your entire entire existence revolves around them and you're responsible for everything they do and feel, it takes a while to get out of that mindset.

Re: Don't do it!

[(Anonymous)]

Hm. Not sure I'd use the term "hold out" because I think it depends on the situation, honestly.

If you're "holding out" with the hope that toxic person will change, it's not going to happen. Just live your life guiltlessly, and don't let the world or even people close to you force you into reconciling when they do not have your experiences with toxic person. If you're at a point in your life where you feel stronger and have tons of support around you, and you can handle toxic person in small doses, then you can. But you don't have to. You don't owe toxic person anything.

Not thinking about them can be hard, though. In some cases, they may have ruined something for you, or an innocent phrase may remind you of them, and then the memories come flooding back. Support and validation are good things.