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fandomsecrets2015-12-05 03:56 pm
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Re: Don't do it!
(Anonymous) 2015-12-06 04:49 pm (UTC)(link)If you're "holding out" with the hope that toxic person will change, it's not going to happen. Just live your life guiltlessly, and don't let the world or even people close to you force you into reconciling when they do not have your experiences with toxic person. If you're at a point in your life where you feel stronger and have tons of support around you, and you can handle toxic person in small doses, then you can. But you don't have to. You don't owe toxic person anything.
Not thinking about them can be hard, though. In some cases, they may have ruined something for you, or an innocent phrase may remind you of them, and then the memories come flooding back. Support and validation are good things.