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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-06 03:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #3259 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3259 ⌋

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Re: Mad at my sister justified?

(Anonymous) 2015-12-06 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Your sister isn't handling internet dating in a smart way, no. But how pissed you want to be at her depends on how you want your relationship to go in the future. If you want your sister to share details with you like this, you have to 1) not give her the third degree every single time she dates someone because hello she's THIRTY and 2) have the kind of relationship where she trusts you and wants you in her life.

As justified as you feel you are, yelling at an adult for not sharing more of their private life with you isn't likely to convince them to be more open with you. You'll catch more flies with honey than vinegar, in other words. You could (kindly, non-judgmentally, non-accusingly) suggest that she write down the guy's name/info on a piece of paper and leave it somewhere it can be easily found in her home, just in case. Or that she shares that info and checks in with a trusted friend, even if that person isn't you.