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fandomsecrets2015-12-10 06:28 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-12-10 06:28 pm
[ SECRET POST #3263 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3263 ⌋
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Re: Would you rather...
The worst part about the second one is that it sounds like the other person is doomed to always want sex with you and never have it. "Incredibly sexually attractive". Why would anyone want to inflict that on themselves and their partner unless it's to alleviate their shallow self-esteem issues? Of course, it IS possible to have a relationship where you're both very much sexually attracted to one another but unable to have sex for e.g. medical reasons, but I believe this does require some work.
Re: Would you rather...
(Anonymous) 2015-12-11 02:09 am (UTC)(link)I wouldn't enjoy the sex though. Having sex with someone who's not sexually attracted to me is not something I would ever do willingly. We're people, not sex toys. Emotions, even sexual ones, aren't something I'm willing to toss aside.
I've gotten by without sex for years at a time. I could certainly handle that if my partner were unable. At least with the second option we'd be on equal footing in terms of our desires and needs. We'd be dealing with the issues together.
Re: Would you rather...
+1000