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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-11 06:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #3264 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3264 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Folgers Coffee Commercial]


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08. http://i.imgur.com/DKoxG0z.jpg
[linked for porn; anime character + random dick]


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09. [SPOILERS for London Spy]



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10. [SPOILERS for Fargo]



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11. [SPOILERS for Borderlands 2]



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12. [WARNING for rape]



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13. [WARNING for incest]



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14. [WARNING for suicide]



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15. [WARNING for abuse]




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16. [WARNING for rape]



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17. [WARNING for rape]
http://i.imgur.com/nxf1nRw.jpg
[nudity, porn star James Deen]



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18. [WARNING for rape]

[The Tempest]


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19. [WARNING for noncon/rape]

[Hannibal]
















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Re: Absolutely.

[personal profile] chardmonster 2015-12-12 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure you're focusing on anything but accusing me of speaking over women at this point though so...

I'm pointing it out because you're a good dude and I know you don't mean to. Like I said: by definition you're just not seeing the same stuff. And... look, may I be blunt? I generally don't talk about my worst sexual experiences with guy friends, even very close guy friends. It just won't come up. That doesn't mean they don't trust you or aren't close to you. I'm just saying... well, you're a guy. Just like my guy friends aren't going to talk about certain things with me.

Re: Absolutely.

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-12-12 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
Again, our experience differs.

I don't really have close male friends, per se (well okay, I have one or two, but they're largely not really a part of my life these days).

My close female friends are the only friends with whom I share terrible/traumatic experiences, and in return they talk about similar ordeals. I'd rather not get into specifics.

I don't expect that to be the case for most female-male friendships, but it's true for me personally. The reality that you're talking about might be a common (heteronormative?) one, but it's not my reality.