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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-11 06:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #3264 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3264 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Folgers Coffee Commercial]


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08. http://i.imgur.com/DKoxG0z.jpg
[linked for porn; anime character + random dick]


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09. [SPOILERS for London Spy]



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10. [SPOILERS for Fargo]



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11. [SPOILERS for Borderlands 2]



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12. [WARNING for rape]



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13. [WARNING for incest]



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14. [WARNING for suicide]



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15. [WARNING for abuse]




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16. [WARNING for rape]



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17. [WARNING for rape]
http://i.imgur.com/nxf1nRw.jpg
[nudity, porn star James Deen]



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18. [WARNING for rape]

[The Tempest]


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19. [WARNING for noncon/rape]

[Hannibal]
















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(Anonymous) 2015-12-12 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
Personally, I think it's better for people to learn how to be happy and whole on their own before they go looking for a relationship, but honestly, most people do both simultaneously. I also don't see anything wrong with looking for someone, if you're ready and you want it. You don't go through life expecting a good apartment, a good car or a good job to fall into your lap. Just about everything worth having is something you have to put effort into achieving, so why should relationships be any different?

(Anonymous) 2015-12-12 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
For me the idea of pursuing a relationship the same way you'd pursue a job is incredibly off-putting. If I'm going to be with someone, I want them to want me, not a carefully contrived persona crafted to appeal to a list of specifications.

Successful relationships take effort, certainly, but I think there's a pretty big difference between working to maintain or improve a relationship that's come about naturally, and working to make a relationship exist in the first place.

(Anonymous) 2015-12-12 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I didn't mean you should literally pursue relationships the way you would search for a job. But waiting around for a relationship to happen "naturally" isn't going to be very realistic for most people. You don't generally wake up one morning only to realize that you're in a stable, long term relationship and it totally just happened all by itself.

People find rationalizations for not putting in the effort in usually find themselves alone, for good reason.