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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-14 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #3267 ]


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kaijinscendre: (Default)

Re: Friendships with large age differences

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-12-15 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
I mean...as long as you are not grooming them sexually, I don't care? I'd be hesitant as an adult being friends with a minor because of the implications if anyone found out. Even if we were just friends, I expect people would be wary about it.

So fine in theory, dangerous in practice.

Re: Friendships with large age differences

(Anonymous) 2015-12-15 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
A 21-year-old is in no way minor, but nice job trying to derail the thread into pedoland.

Re: Friendships with large age differences

(Anonymous) 2015-12-15 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT - But OP was also asking generally.
kaijinscendre: (Default)

Re: Friendships with large age differences

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-12-15 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
"F!S, what are your feelings/thoughts on friendships with large age gaps? ". Sorry for focusing on the one aspect of friendships with large age differences that actually matters.

I guess I could have boringly gone with, "No, that is not weird."
Edited 2015-12-15 00:21 (UTC)

Re: Friendships with large age differences

(Anonymous) 2015-12-15 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
It seems pretty clear in the post they were asking about that specific situation. Was it weird? Could it work?
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Re: Friendships with large age differences

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-12-15 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
How is it clear? Because they had a specific example? So do most topics here that ask about a specific topic. Personal stories are a good starting point in conversation.

And they specifically asked for thoughts on large age differences. They didn't say "Thoughts on this specific situation?"
Edited 2015-12-15 00:33 (UTC)
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Friendships with large age differences

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-12-15 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't get that. I felt they were sharing something and opening up the topic to general discussion at the same time.

Re: Friendships with large age differences

(Anonymous) 2015-12-15 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
OP here:

Well we're both female and I'm not interested in girls that way. Also I have a long-term partner, so I don't see how that's even in play here.

Also she's not a minor?
kaijinscendre: (Default)

Re: Friendships with large age differences

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-12-15 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
You were asking about large age differences in general. So, I addressed the only issue between friendships between large age differences that anyone would care about.

Re: Friendships with large age differences

(Anonymous) 2015-12-15 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Fair enough!
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Re: Friendships with large age differences

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-12-15 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
For the record, I don't think there is anything weird. I have several 40+ year old friends (I am 26).