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(Anonymous) 2015-12-15 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)In an interview I was told to dye my hair another colour or I would never find a job, I have been told that redheads should be burned, murdered, shot, sterilised, that I'm an abomination, a genetic freak. In talking about having kids to a friend I mentioned that there was a high chance that my kids will have red hair too. My friend said 'oh I'm so sorry' before realising that I was actually pleased about this. She backtracked fast, but yeah, message received.
It is a long, slow erosion of self esteem. It is constant fear that when you're out and about some chav is going to start something with you because you're a 'ginger'.
In the worst case scenarios, it's the fear of being stabbed or arson attacks at your house. It's young kids committing suicide because they come to hate themselves. All of this is googleable btw, all news reports from the last few years.
One of the scariest things is that people will not intervene because apparently being a redhead is enough to justiy people beating the shit out of you.
So yeah, it's not really the same here as in the US. As OP says, probably not as bad as other forms of insitutionalised prejudice. But for the redheads in the UK, it's very real and it still takes a bloody big toll on your life.
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(Anonymous) 2015-12-17 02:07 pm (UTC)(link)That it isn't serious because redheads aren't a minority group who are discriminated against.
I've never personally suffered anything severe, except constant grating against my self-esteem, bolstered by lovely comments from friends and family that if I don't like being bullied, I should just dye my hair. :/
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Also, that sounds like some pretty awful victim blaming, regardless of whether redheads are "really marginalized" or whatever. I know I would resent being told to change my hair color to stop bullying or discrimination.