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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-18 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3271 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3271 ⌋

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Re: Drunkenness and age

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2015-12-19 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
Your room is not the enemy, and you can make it a nicer place to be for long periods. If you can, get a lock for your door or arrange your furniture so you can slide your dresser (don't leave breakable stuff on top) or the end of your bed against the door and stuff a blanket under the bottom. It will keep out the drunks and some of the noise. Just quietly let them know you have a headache and you're going to take a nap if it's during the day or go to sleep early if it's night. If you need room rations, go for something you enjoy that will keep and make sure it's in a container that can be sealed. I used to keep my camping gear in my room so it didn't look weird that I had protein bars and a huge carry pack of water in my wardrobe.
If you can pop some headphones on and listen to music or watch something, you can just relax and stay out of their way. It's annoying, because it's your house too, and they're your family and sometimes you want company and conversation, but if they only make you feel like shit, you're better off talking on the phone to your friends in your room.

Assholes are assholes no matter what they're on, pretty much. Sorry. Being drunk made my mum giggly and more inclined to dance to 80s pop music and tell me how much she loved me. My sort of dad was always an asshole, but when he was drunk he was worse. He hasn't changed with age, but I also don't have to deal with it anymore because I lock him out. If he kicks down my door now, he knows I'll call the cops on his ass. It also saves me from having to scrub his vomit out of my curtains. Again.

Re: Drunkenness and age

(Anonymous) 2015-12-19 08:58 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks. I don't have a lock, but no one really comes in my room. I was mostly annoyed at having to choose between staying upstairs and having to listen to a lot of shouting.

Luckily, no one's ever vomited.

My dad's not likely to kick a door down. He's just loud and obnoxious, not violent. The aunt's boyfriend doesn't live here, my observations on his behavior are based on his behavior on holidays that he's been here.