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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-24 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #3277 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3277 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-25 03:04 am (UTC)(link)

I have a bias with this. When girls like shota, I don´t mind. But when men like lolis, I feel very uncomfortable. Women and men can be rapists and pedos, but in general, men are more prone in real life to abuse young girls (and boys).

Besides, women usually like to ship a couple, they like the shota with an older guy, they don´t want to be with the shota themselves, they just enjoy the ship. Whereas men would like to fuck the loli and that creeps me a lot.

(Anonymous) 2015-12-25 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
most guys insert as loli though

(Anonymous) 2015-12-25 07:36 am (UTC)(link)
Why do you think that?

(Anonymous) 2015-12-25 04:12 am (UTC)(link)
Err....you are way overgeneralizing this and being really sexist for reasons that don't pan out. Apparently you haven't hung around enough women into shota. Plenty of them absolutely are into the young boy sexually. There was a dildo in Japan based on a shota character marketed directly to women. There's a reason why shota with an older female is an incredibly popular genre.

Lastly, there are plenty of men who are into lesbian loli, or shota with older girls in which they relive their own youth, remembering exactly what it was like to be young and experiencing sexual arousal for the first time (seriously, half the comment sections on comics featuring shota with older women comics are girls who want to be the older girl, and guys who wish they were the young boy once again and had an older girl to "show them the ropes" that way).

So yeah, your bias does pretty much nothing and it's kind of based on stereotypes you've made up in your head. The reason we don't hear about more women being sexual predators is because of how we've normalized it in our society that young/teen boys can't be taken advantage of. Great video that dispels this myth, it's heavy but a good watch:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ikd0ZYQoDko

I'm getting off topic because I don't think men or women who enjoy shota or loli are pedophiles, but yeah, please check the sexism a bit because that attitude doesn't help to break the cultural idea that women can't be sexual predators.