[ SECRET POST #3280 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3280 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Am I being dumb for being bothered by this?

[(Anonymous)]

I totally get that, she can have whatever criteria she wants for the people she dates. If she'd just said she wanted to date someone more experienced or he wasn't her type or whatever, that's a different thing. But "he's only dated 4 people, that's weird" is judgmental. Like I said above, it bothered me that she was making fun of the dude for being a virgin. I'm not one, so it doesn't have anything to do with me personally, but I still think it's kind of a shitty thing to judge someone for.

Re: Am I being dumb for being bothered by this?

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, how dare she want a partner who's had sex before! You realize how judgemental you sound with this statement?

She's saying how he doesn't meet her criteria, and you're letting it get to you.

DA

[(Anonymous)]

"I prefer people who have had sex before' would be one thing.

"He's only dated 4 people before? He's so weird" is being an asshole about it.

Re: Am I being dumb for being bothered by this?

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

Again, it's perfectly fine for her to feel that way, it's about the way she said it. "I'd prefer a partner who's had sexual experience" or whatever is fine; "this person is WEIRD!" is not.

I don't get how saying "hey, it's not cool to call people weird because they're different than you" makes ME judgmental, but okay.

DA

[(Anonymous)]

The way you're phrasing things can come across as if you really are bothered by the idea of her wanting someone with experience, I think is what they're getting at. I doubt you mean it.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

"DA" lol no one believes you.

Quit trying to pretend to be someone else.