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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-27 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #3280 ]


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Re: Am I being dumb for being bothered by this?

(Anonymous) 2015-12-28 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
No they're being a dick about it. It's less "I want this kind of guy" and more the ridiculing of supposed "immaturity" by not dating as many people. They are being judgmental even if that's their "preference" , they're making a judgement about someone based on how many people they've been with.

SA

(Anonymous) 2015-12-28 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
it's not immature it's "weird".

Still the point stands. It's not "overly sensitive" to be bothered when a supposed friend says someone's weird for not having as much sex as they do.

Maybe instead of getting all pathetically asshurt because "I have the right to state muh opinion" you should think about how you state it.

If I stated my opinion as "I like this people who share this interest of mine" as a preference that would be one thing. But if I stated it as "people who are into this interest are weeeeeeeeeeeird" I would be acting like a dick.

I really don't get why this is so hard to understand.