[ SECRET POST #3281 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3281 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Sam Smith, Duran Duran, a-ha, Madonna, Alicia Keys and Jack White]


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03.
[The DCU]


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04.
[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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05.
[Jojo's Bizarre Adventure]


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06.
[Paladin Danse - Fallout 4]


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07.
[A Song of Ice and Fire]


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08.
[Candy Candy]


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09.
[Agent Carter, Jessica Jones and others]















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 043 secrets from Secret Submission Post #469.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Do you feel uncomfortable around people of the opposite sex?

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know how to interact with people who agender, bigender, etc. Otherwise no.

Re: Do you feel uncomfortable around people of the opposite sex?

[(Anonymous)]

Presumably the same as you would with anyone else? I mean, I've personally never met someone who presents as such (unless I have and it's just never come up), but... do you tailor your conversations to be male/female oriented?

Re: Do you feel uncomfortable around people of the opposite sex?

[(Anonymous)]

No, I'm always worried that I'll mess something up and they'll take offense. Which is dumb, I know.

Re: Do you feel uncomfortable around people of the opposite sex?

[(Anonymous)]

Ah. Well, I think despite what the internet would like you to believe, if you accidentally address someone by the wrong pronoun for whatever reason, it's not likely they're going to jump screaming down your throat.

And if they did, well... at least you know they're not someone you'd want to be friends with, regardless.

Re: Do you feel uncomfortable around people of the opposite sex?

[(Anonymous)]

DA. Yeah, some of them will freak out. I knew this trans guy, but I knew him before he transitioned, and I knew him for years as, well, as a girl. So when he transitioned and wanted us all to call him by a new name, sure, that's fine, but oh my god the freak outs when people slipped up and called him by the name he'd gone by before telling people he was trans??? Jesus Christ. Like, we did our best to change quickly to the new name, but when you know someone as something for 10+ years, it's not going to be an overnight, completely seamless change, and yeah, people screwed it up sometimes. But he just had zero tolerance for any fuck ups. Ugh.

I don't really talk to him anymore, but that's because he moved across the country and neither of us are great at keeping in touch.