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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-30 06:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #3283 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3283 ⌋

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Re: I need to vent

(Anonymous) 2015-12-31 04:33 am (UTC)(link)
That sounds really irritating, and I don't know what to tell you, either. Pointing out that even if she doesn't mean to, she's being very dismissive and that hurts your feelings probably won't accomplish anything, from the sound of it. I wouldn't even try to engage her, just shut her down with "Not everyone's experiences are different" and "That may have been what it was like for you, but my experiences were not the same" and then refuse to buckle.

Or you might ask, "Why is it so important to you that I 'get over' these painful experiences? Do you think it might be easier for me to deal with them if you weren't constantly downplaying them?"

But I'd only do that if you're ready for a FIGHT.