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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-03 03:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #3287 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3287 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-04 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
That's not true at all.

People have things they're confident in and would be able to take criticism in while other things they may not.

There are people who are sensitive to all criticism period exist, but they're certainly not all cases.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-04 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
I dunno, out of all the sensitive people I've known -- and I've known a LOT -- not being able to take criticism was never limited to one thing. They just couldn't take being told the universe didn't shine out of their ass, in any capacity.

I'm just saying that if this affected OP enough that they felt they had to make a secret about it, it might be worth examining the friendship itself to see if it's worth keeping.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-04 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
" They just couldn't take being told the universe didn't shine out of their ass, in any capacity."

That sounds more like narcissism than anything.

I'm just saying because I've known people (and as a young teen been one) who just needed to be reassured that they or what they did wasn't totally worthless.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-04 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, it could just be that they're insecure about their writing. But if it's stressful ennough that you feel like you gotta post it in secret community, that's a pretty big red flag, and OP should probably step back and re-evaluate the friendship as a whole.