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True, I could use some self confidence, but if you have played Trials and Tribulations, you know exactly why I am seeking a "Dessie," if you will. It is mostly because I associate myself heavily with Ron Delite. Seriously, we're pretty much one in the same (except he's much cuter then I am D:).

In any case, I see myself as Ron for a few reasons. By day, I am MaskDeMasque, a strong, confident individual that makes ladies swoon and men look up to my manliness. I can carry conversations, connect with people extrmly well, and become freinds with just about anyone with the right amount of effort. But, for me, that is only a mask. If you look at me on the inside, I am a fairly weak man. I am depressed alot of times, I worry, and I'm constantly afraid of hurting someone with my words. But mostly, I end up being clingy and needy. I only take off this mask with people I feel very close with. Now, for the two ladies mentioned, they clearly fell in love with my mask, but didn't like what they saw under it. They didn't like the idea that they could be more manly then me.

Now, how does this all relate to Dessie? It's simple, really. Dessie clearly sees something in Ron that no one else can see when they look under Ron's mask. To her, she sees a man of strength and kindness that is unmatched in any man. She loves him for exactly who he is under not only the mask, but his core being. When people get to know the real me, I know that, when the time comes, I can be a man of incredible stench, virtue and kindness, and ready to support the people I love on an instant. Ron has this type of inner strength that I know I have. When the time calls for it, I can do some amazing acts. That is what I can offer anyone who falls in love with me: in the time of dire need, where things suck the worst, I can be there. I can be that pillar of strength.

I could have had many girlfriend by now. But I don't want people to fall in love with the mask I wear every day of my life. I want people to love who I am on the inside. I think she's out there. I know she's out there. I know I'll find my Dessie.

Ahhh okay I was pegging you more for somebody with classic Nice Guy Syndrome, which pushes my buttons like nothing else, but it doesn't sound like it so much anymore so sorry for jumping all over you like that xP

Good luck then

It was nothing, really.

I just like to think that maybe girls look for more in a man then muscle and a witty comeback. I'm not a girl, but doesn't the idea that I would get in a car and drive for hours just to support a friend of mine who's mother had just passed, and I thought he could really use a friend around, appealing? Or that you could break down in tears in front of me, and I would listen to every word and say "everything will be ok," then give reason why it will be? Maybe I am too nice of a guy sometimes, but dammit, being a jerk just doesn't fit the bill for me.

Feh. Thanks for understanding, in any case. I could have explained in the post, but I hate tl;dr post more then anything. Walls of text are rarely fun to read.

np.

for what it's worth, you might want to check out
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/ng.shtml

for some thoughts from different women re: nice guys, honesty, and expectations

Oh my, that's alot of articles. But thanks.

For what it's worth, I kinda know what a girl expect now. I'm fiquring it out, and I know that it's partially my fault when it comes to a botched relationship. With that, I am working on making a few changes to myself and not becoming a whiney ronry loser. I think part of it is learning to advertise your good qualities and making sure you show a little self confidence from time to time.

But you have to admit, some girls are real poopieheads. D:<

Not all of them, but some of them can be real harpies.

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