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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-05 07:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #3289 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3289 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Furiosa from Mad Max: Fury Road, AEon Flux from the AEon Flux Movie. Charlize Theron]


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[WWE/Supernatural]


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[The Price of Salt/Carol]


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[Bravely Default]


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[Bones/X-Files]


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[Zenon]


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[Fallout: Nuka Break]


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[Neko Atsume]


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[Mass Effect]

















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Re: Dating and elitism

(Anonymous) 2016-01-06 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
""if you can't handle me at my worst then you don't deserve me at my best""

This fucking quote is so misused. I mean I think it all comes down to how people interpret "worst". I think the quote maybe was meant to be about when one is at their lowest and most struggling. That people who will brush them aside when they're 'not as good as they could be" won't and shouldn't get to just sidle up to them and decide to be buddies when they're at their best and most successful, because they were so ready to dump them when they weren't successful and doing well.

However it often gets misinterpreted as 'worst behaving' I mean, no they won't specify 'behavior' but that's often what the mean.

The way it was meant: "If you're going to drop me when I'm 'not good enough' or 'not cool enough' then you can't just decide to be buddies with me when I'm doing well/when it works for you". Basically "don't just be my friend when it's nice and convenient for you to be"

The way people use it: "If you can't handle me when I'm treating you like dirt, you don't deserve to have me treat you well"

And to that I'd say, yeah run.