case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-06 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3290 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3290 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.
















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 022 secrets from Secret Submission Post #470.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
I don't like people sexualizing just barely legal girls (or boys) either.

The point (to me) isn't whether teens will have sexual experience. Many will--with people about their own age. Fumbling, awkward first love experiences that will hopefully help them become mature.

But I know I personally wasn't mature enough to have sex when I was underage or even when I was 18.

And I think it's gross when adults want to have sex with people who are still mentally immature. Yes, I think 18 is in that range. Study up on the maturity of the brain at various ages, see what I'm talking about.

I'm guessing by the secret that you're a guy? You probably don't understand the full pressure of the male gaze/sexualization/underage skeeviness that many women have had to experience and navigate all their lives. It's twisted as fuck.

But don't worry, get your jollies from anime. At least that's pretend. :D

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
Definitely concur about 18. Hell, even at 20, 21 the statistical average of people still have teenage-level impulsiveness and lack of long-term thinking.

I did some really dumb shit when I was that age that I wouldn't even consider for two seconds now that I'm a decade older.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
It takes impressive mental gymnastics to go from sexy cartoons to adults having sex with kids in real life.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 03:06 am (UTC)(link)
If it's a guy, it's probably less about a lack of understanding and more about naturally being physically attracted to sexually mature girls and women.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 04:46 am (UTC)(link)
You can be attracted to women and not be a fucking creep about it. Most harem anime is just downright degrading.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 05:56 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not a guy and I've never once seen that stuff you say I've had to experience and navigate all my life.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 04:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Neither have I.

I haven't experienced most of the things that apparently happen to All Women.