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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-06 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3290 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3290 ⌋

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Re: Where is the line between appreciating a womans good looks and being wrong about it?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
I say this as a feminist woman: It depends on how desirable you are. Gross people giving attention of any kind is always unwanted and kinda makes women feel uncomfortable and kinda not ok. Attractive guys? I can overlook a lot.

Trouble is you don't know which one you are until you approach a woman. So you either have to man up an accept that you're going to creep women out, and that means accepting that you're not a good person and a real potential danger to 90% of the women you meet. Or not and keep out of our way. Letting women take charge of the situation is the way to be the good person. but then there's an awful lot of people out there who need the man to be the person taking charge. I don't know what the right answer is, but I feel it's accepting the way women feel about you and taking personal responsibility for that.

Re: Where is the line between appreciating a womans good looks and being wrong about it?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
lmfao what the fuck is this comment
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Re: Where is the line between appreciating a womans good looks and being wrong about it?

[personal profile] intrigueing 2016-01-07 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
lol wat
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Re: Where is the line between appreciating a womans good looks and being wrong about it?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 03:20 am (UTC)(link)
Wait, so are you buying into the idea that women should initiate 100% of the time?
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Re: Where is the line between appreciating a womans good looks and being wrong about it?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 06:57 pm (UTC)(link)
How do you solve the problem of unattractive guys being creepy and attractive guys possibly getting pushy without making it so only women can initiate?
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Re: Where is the line between appreciating a womans good looks and being wrong about it?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
LOL 7/10
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Re: Where is the line between appreciating a womans good looks and being wrong about it?

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2016-01-07 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
I was gonna say 9/10 myself.

Re: Where is the line between appreciating a womans good looks and being wrong about it?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
Same, but because there's a fair degree of truth to it. It's just written in a deliberately provocative manner with some genuine bullshit stirred in for good measure.

Re: Where is the line between appreciating a womans good looks and being wrong about it?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 07:05 am (UTC)(link)
>I say this as a feminist woman:

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