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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-06 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3290 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3290 ⌋

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insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2016-01-07 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
An easier way might be to find a woman that wants you to lust after her. Those exist. Though it sounds like isn't the only thing you feel incredibly anxious about so you might also want to consider therapy for your probable social anxiety.

Turning yourself into a different sexuality isn't a thing that actually works so your going to have to accept the biological urges you have that have kept the human race going are probably there at least for a few more decades. Also that they aren't inherently evil.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
They're not evil, but at the same times, those urges have to be tempered by empathy towards other human beings.
insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2016-01-07 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
This person is terrified of how wrong their feelings are and how disgusted others will find them. Empathy is probably not the attribute we need to be concerned about.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
Well, I felt it was an important thing to keep in mind in general. Something it was important to add.

But second, if we're talking about this anon specifically, I think he has empathetic instincts - which is very good. But the other extreme is still a danger. An overreaction is always something you have to guard against. that's what makes it difficult.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
OP doesn't sound empathetic, though. He sounds narcissistic and self obsessed.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 04:04 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, so fear and anxiety equal narcissism and self-obsession now?

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
If it's in men, yes.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 04:15 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, word?

(frozen comment) Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-07 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
Says the cheater.

OP if you want to be a good male, do not do anything this guys says.