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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-10 03:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #3294 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3294 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-10 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
*deep breath* I kind of lied--more like allowed someone to believe--that I'd been molested.

Reasoning: it was easier, in the context of our friendship, to allow her to believe that's what had happened than to go into the details of explaining that what happened probably wasn't what she was picturing, more that I was just long-term groomed and manipulated by a relative who ignored my boundaries (physical included) and set out to make me dependent, destroy my sense of privacy/safety, and make me feel unsafe around my father.

I still feel bad, though.
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(Anonymous) 2016-01-10 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)
No--all this happened years later, after the perpetrator had died anyways. I didn't even say how we were related, and I only said it to this one friend.
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[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-01-10 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I dunno, anon. I think the difference between that and molestation is sort of purely definitional at that point.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-01-10 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I was thinking the same, actually.
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[personal profile] badass_tiger 2016-01-10 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I think if I were your friend, I wouldn't think any less of you or find what happened to you any less a cause for concern if you explained the full situation tbh.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-11 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
You're not alone, but to be honest you do sound like you were the victim of something very sketchy.