[ SECRET POST #3294 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3294 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I kinda ruined my dads life.

When I was little something bad was done happened to me. It was my dad's mother who did it but when it came to light I said it was my dad. I still to this day don't know why I did it, but I've never taken it back. I haven't seem my dad or anyone on that side of the family since.

It's a fucked up thing I did and every now and then I get hit with a massive wave of guilt and the desire to put things right, but that can't happen now. I can't even imagine how that confession would go.

[(Anonymous)]

Well, you have to start somewhere, the righting this wrong even a little bit. Is there a family member you could talk to about it? I seriously doubt anyone would truly hate you for getting mixed up as a child in the midst of something bad.

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i'm assuming it's some form of sexual abuse? did anyone go to jail? it's really a common thing for abuse victims to name the wrong perpetrator. sometimes its to protect the person who did it. sometimes it's an unwillingness to believe yourself that your grandma in this case did anything so bad because that's just not what grandma's do. some times it comes from the believe that you dad in this case is big and strong and can take it and so he, and by extention you, won't get into as much trouble. sometimes it's just straight up fear. your dad never hurt you so you're less worried about pissing him of than you would be about telling on your grandma.

If no-one is currently in prison, it would be a good thing to tell the truth, even this much later, but not essential. it's a common coping response and no-one should make you feel bad for it. you did what you had to to deal with what happened to you and you can't be in the wrong for that. your grandma was wrong, you were a victim. now you are a survivor.

if you're dad is in prison because of this, you need to confess right now. seriously. it'll sting you to do it, but you can't let him suffer in prison for this.

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That is not a unique story. I hope you can find a way to forgive yourself.