[ SECRET POST #3296 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3296 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Pokemon/Harry Potter]


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03.
[Blue Submarine No. 6]


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04.
[Ronin Warriors/Yoroiden Samurai Troopers]


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05.
[Bucky Barnes]


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06.
[Stephen King's The Stand]


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07.
[Adam West/Batman]


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08.
[Haruchika]


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09.
(George R.R. Martin)


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10.
[Mortal Kombat]


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11.
[Carmen Sandiego]


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12.
[Brooklyn Nine Nine]


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13.
[Star Wars: The Force Awakens]













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 018 secrets from Secret Submission Post #471.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Rape TW

[(Anonymous)]

I'm very sorry all of that happened to you. If I'm reading this right, both your brother and your uncle were molesting you?

I would recommend talking about it with a therapist if you can't speak to anybody else.

But I have a sneaking suspicion that you aren't the only one in your family that was molested by your uncle. In fact, I suspect there might be a few secrets in that family of yours, but nobody wants to rock the boat because FAAAAAAAMILY, and the image might be valued over the actual inner condition of the family.

This is just a suspicion though. Even if I'm right, the others may not have any interest in coming forward, and may deny it too, or accuse you of trying to ruin brother's and uncle's reps or break up the family.

Sorry, I'm not trying to be a downer or anything, just saying it's a possibility. I hope it's not the case.

You said you barely talk to your family now. Are they generally jerks, or did you kind of pull away from them for some other reason? Are their views of your brother and uncle kind of souring your view of your relationship with the rest of your family? Like, do you feel that you won't have their support? I think if you have family members you get along with, then you should continue the relationship (unless it's too painful). It sucks to feel isolated when you've been hurt by someone (though this is what abusers count on to escape their crimes). And you never know who might have your back if the secrets start coming out.

As for the shitty members of your family... shitty in that they hurt you don't apologize (not a half-assed or non-apology that deflects blame but a genuine apology that acknowledges wrongdoing and its effect on you) or show true intent to change their shitty ways, don't feel like you have to keep in touch with them much. Or at all.

I will say this... if you don't have a place of your own, consider doing so. Room with a friend if you can. People who don't have your permission just can't barge into YOUR home. Family or no.