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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-13 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3297 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3297 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-15 06:37 am (UTC)(link)
I get what you mean. I'm a cis woman, but I have similar feelings when it comes to BDSM. I'll let a woman dominate me, and I enjoy lesbian porn with a woman being dominated, but I CANNOT enjoy being dominated by a man. So many guys get creepy about it, and even if they don't I can't separate the fantasy of the role-play from reality. I keep thinking "what if he actually thinks of me as a whore? What if he actually seriously disrespects me?" The few times I've done it, while it's hot in the moment, I feel like total shit afterwards. I think fundamentally I cannot trust men to dominate me and then respect me later.

You're allowed to feel what you want and decide not to fuck people for whatever reasons you want. It's your own private sex life.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-17 09:32 am (UTC)(link)
Suspecting individuals is one thing, but this is showing some serious bias from the getgo. You ARE aware that women are capable as being shitty and gross, right?