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⌈ Secret Post #3304 ⌋

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[Law & Order SVU]

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[Leonardo DiCaprio]

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(Penny Dreadful: Caliban/John Clare)

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[Star Wars]

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[Kumail Nanjiani, The X-Files]

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[Shin Megami Tensei X Fire Emblem]

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[Love Live!]

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[Severus Snape and the Marauders]

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[Sherlock Holmes]

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[Making a Murderer, Dean Strang and Jerry Buting]

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[Colony]

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I think i have a crush on my cousin. We have been close for the last 3 years, but from the last 5-6 months i have been feeling pretty weird about the whole thing. It's like we're too much open to each other and talk about just anything. So much comfort, and this is worrying me. She's actually divorced, and actually so chill about everything. And all her friends are married and have moved away, so she's mostly home and don't go out much. But she hangs out with me coz she says I'm too cool to hang out with and stuff. We sometimes make music together too. And she calls me up for everything related to tech and stuff. The thing is I'm fine on the phone and texts, but face to face, I can't sometimes look into her eyes. There's some guilty feeling.

I don't know what to do. Or what should i do ? I obviously can't share this with her or any of my friends.

masturbate it out

Tap it. You'll live the rest of your life regretting it if you don't.

Uh, no.

if you already know you don't want to fuck her then what do you want advice on

How old are both of you? To be honest, this doesn't seem like a great idea to me. Even if she reciprocates your feelings, imagine how awkward it'd be if you guys broke up. It's like dating a co-worker, when the shit hits the fan you're still going to have to see them Monday through Friday, you know. And this is family, not a job you can quit.

People like to romanticize crushes as this powerful force of destiny you can't resist, but that's bullshit. If you want to get over this, you can. Cut back on time spent with your cousin and get busy with other activities. Give it time. Don't let yourself moon over her.

Are you a girl or a boy?

Why does it matter?

Are you asking so you can decide if it's acceptable or if the OP is pure scum and should diaf forever?

So it seems obvious the feeling is returned.... Just deal, anon. Realize that you're not getting with your cousin, that you're good friends and close family and she likes you/relies on you...and that's that.

It's like having a crush on a married friend or school teacher - nothing's gonna happen, so just ride it out and eventually, you'll get through to the other side.

Good luck!
(Also, you're not gross or sick or wrong or anything else. Crushes happen. It's okay.)

crushes go away with time, focus on something else

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