case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-23 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3307 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3307 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.


__________________________________________________



11.


__________________________________________________



12.
















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 078 secrets from Secret Submission Post #473.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
dani_phantasma: (carousel)

Re: 'Harmful' Beliefs

[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2016-01-24 04:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I've seen people talk about this. I hope I don't seem dismissive about it but...I think it's more that, for people who dealt with awful bullying and were still hurt by it, it's tempting to think of your bully as only a bad person.

When someone hurt you that much and it got to you that much you really don't want to think of them as anything but a monster.

You don't want to humanize them, you want to think of them as horrible people who need to get what they deserve.

It's not a right way of thinking and can sometimes lend itself to bad things. But I can understand why people might feel that way when they're hurt.