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⌈ Secret Post #3307 ⌋

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Re: 'Harmful' Beliefs

[(Anonymous)]

Her point was that it would be an excuse for their behavior.

I feel like the background can be more of an 'explanation' than it is an 'excuse'. If the bully has all sorts of terrible things going on in the background of their life, I can understand a little more why they might lash out at others or exercise power in one area that they can, even if it's negative. It doesn't mean that it's not a shitty thing to do, and it doesn't excuse them doing it - but I do understand the root causes.

A lot of times, people do try to use explanations as excuses, but I see them as separate things.

And I wouldn't ever want to say that we shouldn't be looking at the root causes of these things.