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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-24 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3308 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3308 ⌋

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Re: Inspired by #1

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
I had an LJ friend who was always in some sort of family and financial crisis and every suggestion for ways to make things easier was met with reasons for why it wouldn't work.

They couldn't drop the internet (during a pleasant season) and use the library because they'd have to walk about a mile to get there and only have an hour. They can't not buy that TV season, because it's what gives them joy. They can't go to a food pantry because their family is too proud for that.

And that last one was when I realized I had too many of my own problems to deal with to keep dealing with her drama. Unfriended without a word and then got vaguely called out in a "if anyone else wants to unfriend me for having a hard time JUST DO IT!" post.

Re: Inspired by #1

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
Some people are their own "hard time".

Re: Inspired by #1

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
oh lord this fandom friend. i had one too

Re: Inspired by #1

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
I never know if these people just like complaining, or if they are actually incapable of thinking things through.

blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

Re: Inspired by #1

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-01-25 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
You didn't have to give them advice/suggestions you know. Some people just want to vent; they're not expecting you to solve everything for them.

Re: Inspired by #1

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
Even that can be exhausting, tho. Anon was well within their rights to peace.

Re: Inspired by #1

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
They couldn't drop the internet (during a pleasant season) and use the library because they'd have to walk about a mile to get there and only have an hour.

That's... an extremely good reason? The other two are ridiculous, but that? You're harsh.

Re: Inspired by #1

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
For most people a mile (or two both ways) should be manageable, barring disabilities and such. Having only one hour of Internet is more understandable, but still enough to get some time both for fandom and real life things.

Re: Inspired by #1

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 04:40 am (UTC)(link)
Some libraries only give you 35-45 minutes and there are always people ahead of you if they've already reserved the computer time well in advance!