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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-25 06:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #3309 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3309 ⌋

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Re: When was the last time you made skin to skin contact with someone else?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
5 years. shook my employers hand at the interview. my girlfriend doesn't like to be touched and I don't have any friends that close.

Re: When was the last time you made skin to skin contact with someone else?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Ouch. Why are you with her? not trolling, I really want to know.

Re: When was the last time you made skin to skin contact with someone else?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
*shrugs*

its not her fault. she doesn't want me to touch her, I don't touch her.

Re: When was the last time you made skin to skin contact with someone else?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Are you both ace or something?

Re: When was the last time you made skin to skin contact with someone else?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
nope.

Re: When was the last time you made skin to skin contact with someone else?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Can I ask a sensitive question?

Re: When was the last time you made skin to skin contact with someone else?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
shoot.

TW RAPE

(Anonymous) 2016-01-25 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Is there any sexual abuse behind that? That whole "I don't want my BF/GF(?) to touch me" sounds kinda red-flag-y. If there is something like that in her past maybe getting her some help might be an idea?

Re: TW RAPE

(Anonymous) 2016-01-26 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
no, nothing like that in her past. we've talked about it a lot. I'm certain she would tell me. she is deathly afraid of rape and things like rape, though, and says that being touched feels like rape, which I agree is a bit of a red flag but we all have issues, I guess.

Re: When was the last time you made skin to skin contact with someone else?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-26 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
Some people just don't like being touched.

I have a tic disorder, and frequently being touched on the areas involved (head/neck, shoulders, sometimes upper arms) will activate the tic and it's very uncomfortable. People putting their arm over my shoulders is the worst, even if they're people I really really like. As such, I'm not much for cuddling. I can see why it might be a "deal breaker" for someone who wanted to date me, but it's not a "red flag" for my mental health or disposition.