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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-27 06:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #3311 ]


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(Anonymous) 2016-01-28 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
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I want to know how you define bullying, because I can't help but wonder if your talking about something rather different because bullying is not something that may be perceived as such depending on the person.

I mean, for me ignoring someone or making some comments/jokes that may not be nice isn't bullying (though it may be part of it, but not on its own).

Outright harassment and/or public humiliation that may involve physical "jokes" that can be even be dangerous it how I define bullying.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-29 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
That's the far end of the bullying scale. More low-key harrassment and ostracization can also qualify as bullying depending on the frequency and extent.

And a lot of bullying, even the worse manifestations, are written off as "not that bad" by both the kids involved and the adults around them. That's a big part of how you get shit like teens being driven to suicide by their peers in the first place - everyone who should have stepped in and done something about it wrote it off as just kids being kids.