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I was 17 and had a serious crush on a guy who lived in my dorm, who was 21. I was also a complete virgin. At a party, I got extremely drunk (yes, I know, illegal, I was stupid). He led me into a bedroom and started to kiss me. I directly asked him if he had romantic feelings for me and he's like "no, but we can be fuckbuddies".

I told him we couldn't have sex because of that. Of course, I was drunk. So I started saying random "unsexy" things so his not very substantial erection would go down. "Your grandma naked! Your Mom naked! Your Mom and grandma naked together!" It didn't work.

I was completely naive, but it broke my heart. I was fucked up for a couple of weeks because of it. And no, we didn't have sex - it was just a bad sexual experience.

"2Your grandma naked! Your Mom naked! Your Mom and grandma naked together!" It didn't work.

You may have dodged a bullet there.

...took me a second to get this, but haaa. wow.

The first time I had sex I had a lot of anxiety that caused me not to enjoy it, mainly over various insecurities, but I held it in and pretended it wasn't happening. The second time I had sex (next night with the same person) the anxiety got even worse and I couldn't hide it anymore, after several minutes of laying there wanting to stop I finally built up the nerve to ask my partner to stop and then started crying, and wasn't even able to explain what was going on to them.

I'm sorry anon. But this sounds like a rape experience to me and there is nothing but a whole world of help for you to find a way to deal with that.

It wasn't a rape experience, my partner stopped when I asked them too, and I had consented initially. It was more of a "I was really shit at communicating" and a "I made myself deal with something I didn't have to" experience.

Please stop blaming yourself. If not for your sake then for the other women in your position who will take this as an endorsement that it was their fault for not communicating correctly to their rapists

hi radfem!anon, nice of you to show up to the party.

Re: What's your worst sexual experience?

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Re: What's your worst sexual experience?

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Re: What's your worst sexual experience?

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Gonna go with the creep who stalked me at a McDonalds and harassed me, followed me to the subway, and fondled me. And then somehow was on the same train as me several times after that and always waved and said hello and tried to talk to me.

I only experienced one orgasm in my whole life, when I was 14 and my boyfriend forcibly fingered me. I was too scared to ask him to stop. I never dated anyone since and was never able to successfully masturbate.

well, damn. sorry to hear that. that's traumatizing.

Sending lots of love to you and your 14 year old self. I hope you'll sort it through some day. <3

Without getting too far into it, what jumps to mind is:
a) realizing I was on the receiving end of oral sex I didn't want, kicking hard and landing right between the shoulder and the neck, causing partner to fall off the bed;
b) realizing partner had...uh, crossed a boundary without a condom, shimmying myself out from under while yelling that I wasn't sure if I took my birth control that day

Yeah. Same night. Alcohol and being 20. Huzzah.

Met a guy at a club (number one, massive mistake right there). Keep in mind I was pretty inexperienced at this point.

Go back to my place. Cheeky bit of oral, then he has me lie down on the bed. Like thirty seconds of applying what I thought was lube (turned out to be spit). Suddenly over me and I start to say 'wait' when he just rams it in.

Tells me to hush and just relax to which I make my feelings really clear using a lot of robust language. Finished on my face instead, and then just left.

Finished on my face instead

After her rapes you, you let him finish? Hell, you left him in a state where he was able to finish ever again.

My first real one, tbh. Boyfriend at age 16. I genuinely had a crush on him, and I enjoyed making out and, err, dry-humping. But he wanted to take it farther, and I never had the confidence to set limits or be clear about what I liked and didn't like (I don't mean he bullied me, we were just both awkward). He fingered me, and it really hurt, but I pretended to like it because I felt so awkward and embarrassed and idk. I know he really wanted to do more, but I never liked anything more than making out and clothed grinding. It hurt for hours after, because he obviously had no idea what he was doing and I am pretty sure I must've been totally dry.

I also later realized I'm primarily attracted to women. I don't think that experience affected that realization directly, because honestly I don't think I really got "sexual" until college anyway (didn't masturbate or anything like that).

Hoo boy.

So much to choose from, so little time...

I'll have to go with the guy who seemed normal and then broke out the baby talk as soon as we started to get into it. Words can not even describe how fast I noped out of there.

Edit: And since everyone else seems to have posted worse things than me, I'll break out the runners up!

Runner up #1: The guy with precum that tasted so terrible it was like trying to suck on gasoline (couldn't make it through without gagging), who couldn't keep it up without putting porn on.

Runner up #2: The girl who didn't wash her ass so that when I went down on her it was so ripe and smelled like so much shit that I had to quit.

I don't think I've really ever done anything I didn't want to do, but holy shit sometimes a bad one gets past the vetting process.

Edited 2016-01-31 23:58 (UTC)

Baby talk like just cutesy-poo words, or actual adult baby type stuff?

I didn't hang around long enough to find out, honestly. There are few kinks that actively creep me out, but that was just equal measures of turn off and whatthefuck.

My first time, which was just your typical "Nervous/anxious, couldn't get it in due to me being a virgin and him being above average, so we stopped trying and ate Mac and cheese instead" kind of ordeal.

When I was still trying to convince myself that I was straight back in high school, a guy friend of mine and I got a bit buzzed while we were hanging out, and long story short he ate me out and it was so bad that I actually started laughing and had him stop. His ego was a bit bruised, I think, but was receptive to criticism and I told him it probably wasn't even his fault, I just wasn't even halfway feeling it 'cause I wasn't into guys.

And that's the story of the first time I came out to anyone!

It wasn't so bad but... we were doing it (enthusiastically, had been together for about 2 months) and then the tissue that connects his foreskin to the top part ripped and he bled all over my vagina. I feel like I kinda messy deflowered him...

It's called the frenulum, for the record. Had mine torn once by a girl who gave terrific head, but had never encountered an uncircumcised dick before and did not know its operational parameters. Poor girl had my dick in her mouth and was really hitting her stride when suddenly I yelled in pain and my dick started shooting blood. Took me half an hour to talk her out of the bathroom afterward, all while holding paper towels to my dick to stanch the bleeding.

oh god I can only imagine how I would have freaked if it had happened in my mouth.

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