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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-02 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3317 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3317 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[D.Gray-man - Miranda Lotto]


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[The Thick of It]


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[Golden Kamui]


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(The Lost Boys)


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[Marble Hornets/troyhasacamera]


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[@midnight with Chris Hardwick]



















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THIS IS ON YOU.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-03 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think he had any idea you would flip out at this. This whole thing is about your personally defined boundaries, and your lack of communication about them, and your overreaction to his behavior.

You need to explain to him that your boyfriend taking time away from paying clients is a problem for you and why.

Re: THIS IS ON YOU.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-03 03:34 am (UTC)(link)
Wait, so are you saying it's all HER fault?

You might want to be a little clearer. Just in case you want to emphasise that it's HER problem.

Re: THIS IS ON YOU.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-03 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
Just cause you don't KNOW something will upset someone does not instantly absolve you of any responsibility to apologize at LEAST when it does in fact upset them. That's just in general.

Re: THIS IS ON YOU.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-03 04:38 am (UTC)(link)
Nah. Even if he was such a fecking idiot he thought this would be cool, the very second he found out it wasn't, he should've apologized profusely, because that's what people who are asshats do when they've accidentally hut someone they love. He didn't do that, so it's all on him.