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fandomsecrets2016-02-04 06:23 pm
[ SECRET POST #3319 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3319 ⌋
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[Manhunter, Criminal Minds, CSI and X-Files]
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[Heroes Reborn]
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[Story of Seasons]
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[Keanu Reeves]
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[One Punch Man]
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[photo of naked dude in a suggestive(?) position]
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-05 03:51 am (UTC)(link)No. If someone is acting like a little shit about their 'preferences' they deserve to be criticized. Not attacked or threatened. But criticized.
If someone is being an asshole and saying sexist stuff to justify why someone else's likes are inferior they don't need to be protected from people criticizing that behavior because they're a girl.
FFS stop treating girls like delicate flowers who can't have their behavior criticized.
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-05 04:17 am (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2016-02-05 05:00 am (UTC)(link)Lol what kids? Most of the people I hear spout this crap are like 18-25. I'm sure there are some of these "young, internalized misogyny" girls out there, but in my personal experience it's mostly "girls" who haven't grown out of some of the frankly childish, bullshit playground bully crap I see even at age 21 and in college.
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-05 10:20 am (UTC)(link)+1
I read many who are 30 or 40 too! They might sound like they are 10 but they are adult ladies, some even with kids.
Honestly the age thing is stupid. I think 15 years girls are enough old to take responsibility of what they say.
Let's not be like those parents that justify their bully kids just because they are young, you are never too young to learn to respect people and women.
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-05 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2016-02-05 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2016-02-05 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)You are exaggerating. Calling people out on their shit or disagree with them =/= harass them and forever ruin their lives.
And straw man arguments get easily old here, nonny.
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-06 12:04 am (UTC)(link)Did you forget I said this.
Maybe I should have said it more clearly, but it is possible to criticize the behavior without attacking the person.
You can say "I disagree with your interpretation" or "What you're saying has some messed up implications" without "and you're scum and should kill yourself"
I don't know if the internet has forgotten that. But it is still very possible to do. What's also very possible and should be practiced more is pointing out something once, saying your piece and moving on to something else.
Funny thing. Outside the internet the tumblr practice of keeping lists of everything someone's said, telling their peers not to talk to them and goading them until mental breakdown is considered unusual and excessive behavior that healthy adults and well adjusted people do not generally do. In fact most rational people think that is abnormal behavior. Just saying.
I don't know why you hear "criticized" and think that automatically must mean dedicated and obsessive harassment until the target dies. But that sounds like a BIG "you" problem.
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-05 08:05 pm (UTC)(link)