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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-09 06:24 pm

[ SECRET POST #3324 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3324 ⌋

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[Music video: Poets of the Fall, "Daze" (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=di7NMssrqsE)]


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Re: Things you wish you could say to people

(Anonymous) 2016-02-10 11:14 am (UTC)(link)
I wish I could just explain to my landlady that she's emotionally abusive to me (and apparently other people), and acts in ways that really make me think that she has narcissistic personality disorder. I want to get her to understand how it's harmful that she views herself so high above other people, that when someone treats her like an equal, she perceives that as an insult. I want to explain why it's bad that she doesn't listen to anyone, that she thinks she's always right about everything, and it's honestly become a limiting thing for her, because she's ignoring a lot of valid points, and often making things more difficult for herself AND other people.

I want her to understand that people would actually think more highly of her, if she could ever admit to having flaws, or making mistakes, or if she could APOLOGISE. I want to instruct her to stop blaming other people for her own mistakes. I want to explain that the reason she has a hard time maintaining good relations is that whenever she fucks up in front of someone, she turns it around by "punishing" the other person for having witnessed her fuck-up. This, understandably, drives people away.

I wanna tell her that she should stop lying all the time. I wanna explain that her divide-and-conquer approach to working with people makes us not trust her as soon as we compare notes a bit, and they don't match up.

I wish I could tell her that she should care more about ACTUALLY ACTING GOOD, as opposed to putting up a public, gilded front of doing that. She doesn't care about how people actually feel, she just wants to look good from a distance. I also kinda want to tell her that she should stop flaunting her educational and economical status around, expecting respect and awe just based on those. Please, woman, start actually BEHAVING in a way that makes me wanna respect you.

Also, you're my landlady, not my fairytale evil stepmother. Stop sticking your nose into my life. It's none of your business as long as I don't bring in pets, or smoke indoors, or damage the apartment somehow.

And stop blaming me for losing other tenants. The first one was your own fucking fault for outright lying to her about the quality of the apartment in the first place. *I* was the one thing she would have LIKED about living there. We're still in contact occasionally. The other one, I'm not entirely sure why she left, but it sure as hell wasn't my fault. I'm pretty sure you made too big promises again. It's a nice house if you like that type of living, but it's not God's gift to humanity. There's plenty of reasons someone might not wanna live in that room, starting with the fact that it was too small for her furniture to fit, and also you'd apparently promised that the room's door could be locked, which turned out untrue.

And stop blaming my "bad attitude" whenever I, as politely as possible, point out that you're either downright trying to cheat me into paying YOUR bills, or have otherwise fucked up, or changed our agreement without telling me, or withhold information I need, for no apparent reason.

Re: Things you wish you could say to people

(Anonymous) 2016-02-10 03:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Holy crap. I used to have a landlady like this.