[ SECRET POST #3327 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3327 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Leonard Snart/Ray Palmer, DC's Legends of Tomorrow]


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05. [SPOILERS for Downton Abbey]





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06.[WARNING for suicide]



[Mare Internum]


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07. [WARNING for sexual assault]



[Love Live - sorry anon who wanted it Saturday, trying to keep the warning ones on Friday]


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08. [WARNING for rape, abuse, etc]





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09. [WARNING for rape/dub-con, child abuse]





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11. [WARNING for underage sex]






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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I can't remember that thread, did they actually say that they wished "they were lucky enough to be raped"? Or did they say that they wish they had been able to do the same thing that the woman Bowie "raped" did? (Because the woman herself doesn't classify it has rape, even now, twenty(?) years later.)

[sachiko_san]

They pretty much said that they wished they were able to sleep with Bowie back then and if they were a teenager then, they'd probably do what that one groupie did, something along those lines.

[otakugal15]

Man, this. When I was 16, had I been able to something similar that resulted in me and Hugh Jackman? Oh hell YES I would have done it.

[sachiko_san]

Pretty much, I feel this way about Chris Hemsworth and Chris Pratt... and Brendan Fraser back in 1999 when I just turned into a teen.

[(Anonymous)]

My whole problem with this discussion is that I get where a lot of this comes from...but for those of us who did actually do the groupie thing and screwed musicians, it's hard to see it in this 'horrible OMG light'.

It's nearly 30 years later and I don't look back at any of that as rape. Stupid? Yes. Legally statutory? Yes. Was I of the age of consent where I lived? No. Rape? Uh - maybe I should consider myself the rapist by deception as I probably lied about my age just for the sole purpose of getting backstage to have sex with them. (Yes, I was dumb kid and I'm lucky to have avoided STDs or other horrible consequences! At the time they were hot and being able to say you banged the lead singer of such-and-such hair band was kind of a mark of pride).

Did these musicians know my real age? Ehhh, maybe? As I said, I lied about it, but I'm sure they knew that was a possibility. It wasn't something that got talked much about tbh. Like maybe in a joking way a roadie would ask, 'You sure you're 18? Hah hah...' in a kind of offhand manner (and then you'd just flash a little boob or - if one was hot enough - go for a handy). Ugh - it was the 80's.

Thing is - it's not like I don't know the other side of things. When I was 15 my 17yo boyfriend slipped me LSD (I'd never even smoked pot - I'd maybe had a beer once - it fucked me up) - and had sex with me. And to this day I still don't know if his friend had sex with me as well (I think so? I know he was in the room). That boyfriend and I had had consensual sex before that, and yet I absolutely know that what he did was rape. No question about it.

So, I'm no stranger to what rape really is... but everything that happened with these musicians was something I went after, wanted and consented to. So, nothing I've read about the girl Bowie slept with says she considers it anything other than just stupid sex she had when she was 16. That's where I have a problem with people getting all up in arms about this, and acting like this was OMG the worst?!!

[sachiko_san]

I just take it as something people want something to complain about, so they decided one of the most beloved singers in the world should be their target and considering how SJWs think white men are the worst things in the world, it's all their fault and how dare they not push some teenage girl into revealing her true age, fucking pedos! uwu

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I just... no one's going to tell me if I was raped. Yanno?

You may not like it that I was 15-16 and slept with a guy who was in his 20's or 30's, and I'm not going to debate the legality of it... but I know from first hand experience what rape is, and nothing that I did with any of those musicians was rape.

[(Anonymous)]

you were not old enough to consent sweetie. you were raped, and the fact that you think you weren't shows that you were too young to understand.

[(Anonymous)]

ew ew ew ew ew go away forever you disgusting excuse for a human

[(Anonymous)]

Shut the fuck up, you piece of shit. Just shut the fuck up. You have no business sharing your small, stupid thoughts on anything.

[(Anonymous)]

feel better, ~~~~sweetie?~~~~

[solticisekf]

Go away from this thread (2)

[(Anonymous)]

Oh shut the fuck up with your condescending bullshit. No, I absolutely was not. I get to decide that, and no one else does, you fuckwit. I don't 'think I wasn't' - I know I wasn't. Everything that I chose to participate in was completely consensual. No one coerced me, or threatened me or talked me into anything. I wasn't some innocent little naive wide-eyed child. I sought out sex and had it with someone who consented to have it with me. Pretty simple, really.

Gods be damned, you idiots think that there's some magical switch that flips when you turn 18, or whatever other arbitrary age makes it legal, that gives you the ability to comprehend consent? That's beyond ignorant.

So, by your logic, since I was 15 when my boyfriend drugged me (without my knowledge) and had sex with me, sex that I absolutely did not consent to, and probably let his friend screw me too - I was too young to know that WAS rape??

You are such an idiot.

[(Anonymous)]

NA - Are you kidding me? This is one of the most ridiculous statements you can make to a complete stranger. You know nothing about their ability to make those choices. Don't forget that legal age varies from state to state, country to country and in some places, depending on your sexuality.

[(Anonymous)]

Obvious troll is obvious but this is a parody that is very close to a genuine extreme SJW attitude, whereby when someone's lived experience contradicts their social theory, they will tell you that you don't know your own mind - precisely, they will question the accuracy of your recall and even go as far as questioning your actual sanity in order to show that they are right and you are wrong and the have the brass neck to say that it's for your own good and they're doing you a favour. Some justice!

[(Anonymous)]

Go back to school, you have no idea what being raped means.