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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-12 07:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #3327 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3327 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Leonard Snart/Ray Palmer, DC's Legends of Tomorrow]


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05. [SPOILERS for Downton Abbey]





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06.[WARNING for suicide]



[Mare Internum]


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07. [WARNING for sexual assault]



[Love Live - sorry anon who wanted it Saturday, trying to keep the warning ones on Friday]


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08. [WARNING for rape, abuse, etc]





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09. [WARNING for rape/dub-con, child abuse]





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10. [WARNING for rape]





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11. [WARNING for underage sex]






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12. [WARNING for sexual abuse, child abuse]




























Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #475.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 05:53 am (UTC)(link)
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I have pretty much abandoned that section of fandom, which was tumblr. Which kind of sucks because I like tumblr's tag feeds for getting a mix of fandom stuff, especially fanart.

But on the plus side I went hunting and found a forum that seems a lot more my style. No mention of 'family', and I'm sure there are jerks but it seems to encourage a lot more healthy disagreement and less dogpiling over opinions.

But I mean I don't even ship one pairing, but they're two adults working together, if it was Criminal Minds they'd probably be Reid and Prentiss, and any time anything gets posted with them there's a chorus of how it's incest and pedo because they're the kids of the group and it's gross and abusive to ship them.

And the weird infantilization gets to me too. A recent-ish meta that was getting a lot of attention and reblogs was "When Prentiss-character has nightmares she goes to Rossi-character or Hotch-character and crawls into bed with them and they pet her hair and sing her lullabies to keep the nightmares away." And she's a grown professional woman and this is being treated seriously as actual canon meta of how she would act. I've gotten to where I can't stand any mention of the mom/dad pairing because it's so heavily associated with the 'family fanon' that it's causing the same sort of anxiety.

I'm planning to take a break for a while, and then lurk in the new forum a while and see if I can enjoy fandom for the show if they're not pushing the family stuff. And if not, my own mental health comes first.