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fandomsecrets2016-02-14 04:08 pm
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-14 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2016-02-14 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)Except for the attacking him for being a guy thing. that'snot what we need more of.
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-15 12:00 am (UTC)(link)Treating other people as sex objects is inherently immoral. See people however you like, so long as you don't act upon those thoughts in a way that makes them uncomfortable.
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-15 12:57 am (UTC)(link)To use your metaphor, I'm someone who doesn't have a problem until your moral value starts going into negatives i.e. you start acting upon your isms.
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I'm specifically saying don't do that. I'm specifically saying that wanting to see something in a sexual light isn't bad as long as you realize that's not the only component to the thing you sexualize.
If nothing in the world was ever sexualized, we wouldn't have... half of fashion, art, music... Women would probably have breasts that were still like chimpanzees and other primates (ie. flat unless lactating). We might not have hair on our heads or faces (according to some theories of sexual selection).
It is not a bad thing, and my masculinity has nothing whatsoever to do with it.
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professionally we see people all the time as their job function.
if you acknowledge that they have other values and personhood (like he said) there's nothing immoral about "using" people.
exploitation and power imbalance are the problems.
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-15 12:18 am (UTC)(link)Seeing someone as a person who has many qualities, including sexiness, is not the same thing as seeing someone as a thing that has no qualities except sexiness.
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I'd like to see you prove that.