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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-17 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3332 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3332 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(David Bowie)


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03.
(Great British Bake Off for Sports Relief, Ed Balls)


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04.
[Pokemon]


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[Star Wars: TFA]


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06.
[Damian Lewis, Dick Winters, Band Of Brothers]


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07.
[Daughter of the Lilies]


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08.
[David Eddings]


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09.
[Sengoku Basara]


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10.
[JJBA]


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[Men In Black I, II, III]
















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 022 secrets from Secret Submission Post #476.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
You're a faggot and your girlfriend deserves better.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-02-18 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
Found the asshole.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
That's what he said.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-02-18 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure if I'm amused or aroused.

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-02-18 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
No U.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
poor troll got lost on its way to 4chan

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
Homophobic slur not withstanding, I agree. If you have homoerotic urges and you're deceiving your girlfriend about them, this is not ok.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
And once again, bisexual people do not exist!

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't say anything of the sort. Get that fucking chip off your shoulder you dickhead.

If he is bisexual and he's hiding it from his girlfriend, that is still deceit and still makes him a scumbag.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
He's not deceiving anyone if a) he did not know and b) he did not act on it.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
He does know. He's just admitted it. And he doesn't need to act on it.

If you're boyfriend was a peadophile, who never did the act, does that make it ok for him to decieve you in to a sexual relationship you would not have engaged in if you'd known? Extreme argument, but you must see how keeping this about yourself stuff from your girlfriend is deceit and not ever ok.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
Being attracted to one - may I add animated - character does't quite reveal the complexity of your own sexuality.

If he'd had boyfriends prior to her, I'd think it's a different scenario, but I don't think your partner is entitled to the details of everything that goes on in your head, especially if you're still figuring shit out.

And your pedophilia comparison does not add up. A pedophile could not be attracted to me, as I'm an adult. A bisexual man could be attracted to me no problem. So in the first case the relationship is a lie, in the second it is not.
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[personal profile] wannabe_influential 2016-02-18 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
You're equating having possible bisexual urges to being a pedophile? Really?

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
I agree that AYRT is an asshole, but the word "equate" really doesn't mean what you think it does. Try "analogize" or something like that.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
So you think I should have told every boyfriend I had I am bisexual.. when I didn't even know that bisexuality existed and I was just "broken" because I had the same feelings of attraction for women as well as men?

How could I have told someone I am something I didn't know I was? How is not telling someone I'm something I don't know I am deceiving them?

NOW I would let my partner know, because I know. Even though my interest in women has not yet resulted in a relationship with one.

/trying to wrap her head around the logic
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2016-02-18 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
What if they are bisexual urges? Or pansexual? Good gods - why jump to 'deceiving your gf' as the default? Can't a person have curiosity about or get aroused by something without it being a *betrayal*?

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
It's just a picture, dammit. Some people have just one exception to being 100% heterosexual, you know.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-18 07:40 am (UTC)(link)
I bet you're also RadFem Anon.