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(David Bowie)

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(Great British Bake Off for Sports Relief, Ed Balls)

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[Pokemon]

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[Star Wars: TFA]

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[Damian Lewis, Dick Winters, Band Of Brothers]

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[Daughter of the Lilies]

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[David Eddings]

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[Sengoku Basara]

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[JJBA]

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[Men In Black I, II, III]

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My partner does something I find unpleasant / Did something inconvenient / Said something stupid / Is very problematic. What do you think I should do, F!S?

Act like an adult and talk to them instead of going on a forum and asking for advice.

this!

Sometimes people need a little extra help to untangle a problem because they're too involved and have lost their perspective or objectivity. There is absolutely nothing wrong with seeking advice or a fresh perspective from another source.

+1000000

get your facebook, hit a lawyer, delete the gym

Don't hit the lawyer. They hit back.

hit your facebook, delete the lawyer, get a gym

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(Anonymous) - 2016-02-18 00:22 (UTC) - Expand

Talk to them.
/thread

passionately make out with them and then promptly dump them on valentine's day, their birthday, or when they propose to you (whichever closest)

This is the only realistic solution.

DUMP THEM AND MAKE A RECEIPT BLOG SHOWING THEIR HOME ADDRESS AND PETS NAMES!!!!

Complain about it on the internet. Works every time.

have hate!sex probably

sever.

Severus?

always?

Dump them obviously.

That's the advice whenever anyone mentions a relationship problem on here.

With that being the default reaction here you gotta wonder how people keep relationships.

I feel like it's that "never forgive never forget" attitude of tumblr.

Problematic people are horrible trash and should be cut out of your life if they ever upset you. uwu,

They don't keep shit. That's why they're all as bitter as Chard and so invested in other people abandoning their relationships.

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(Anonymous) - 2016-02-18 01:37 (UTC) - Expand

I think "dump them" is the go-to because the story we get from the person posting is only a very small part of their whole relationship, or it's only the most negative stuff. So it's easy to jump to conclusions about the things we're not seeing. ~~And probably a good reason not to ask for relationship advice here, but that's just how I feel personally.~~

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explain your side of the story to them BUT. Not with words.

Only use interpretive dance.

Trust me.

Tell him you're going to lock him in a room with inmates at a prison and record for the internet every second of use they get out of him.

I might want a copy of that video... for science.

Bring up the subject in a non-confrontational way and have a discussion.

Here's the catch, though: you have to respect them and be open to changing your mind. Doesn't mean you have to change your mind, but the only way you can change someone else's is if you're willing to change your own.