[ SECRET POST #3332 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3332 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(David Bowie)


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(Great British Bake Off for Sports Relief, Ed Balls)


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[Pokemon]


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[Star Wars: TFA]


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[Damian Lewis, Dick Winters, Band Of Brothers]


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[Daughter of the Lilies]


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[David Eddings]


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[Sengoku Basara]


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[JJBA]


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[Men In Black I, II, III]
















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Comments

Do pre-nups ruin the romance of marriage?

[(Anonymous)]

Re: Do pre-nups ruin the romance of marriage?

[(Anonymous)]

I say no, my friends say yes.

Re: Do pre-nups ruin the romance of marriage?

[blitzwing]

No. Reducing the risks of your partnership by planning for all eventualities is a prudent and anxiety-reducing thing, and that is very sexy.

Re: Do pre-nups ruin the romance of marriage?

[herpymcderp]

romance of marriage

lol, good one OP

Re: Do pre-nups ruin the romance of marriage?

[(Anonymous)]

I'm the first reply, so my answer was no. All my friends think it does, I was interested in hearing other peoples' thoughts.

Re: Do pre-nups ruin the romance of marriage?

[dancing_clown]

I mean, I think it would ruin the romance of the proposal to be all "Will you marry me? (If yes, let's talk about prenups in case we fizzle!)" But I think if you have a long(ish) engagement and tackle the prenup somewhere in the middle of proposing and the wedding, not really.

Re: Do pre-nups ruin the romance of marriage?

[(Anonymous)]

I thought they did, until I read someone somewhere (I can't remember where) say a prenup is saying 'hey, I don't plan to divorce you, but if we do I want to make sure that the person I love is still okay and we come out of it with respect for eachother'

IDK when the person I'm paraphrasing said it, it was really nice and made me completly change my mind.

Re: Do pre-nups ruin the romance of marriage?

[cbrachyrhynchos]

marriage is supposed to be romantic?

Re: Do pre-nups ruin the romance of marriage?

[(Anonymous)]

No it's a sign that you're mature enough to understand the realities of relationships and want to prepare for every eventuality.

Re: Do pre-nups ruin the romance of marriage?

[(Anonymous)]

Eh, maybe in the sense that it's not spontaneous and is clearly forcing people to consider the possibility of the marriage's failure before it's even begun, I suppose. But it's very practical and I think if the two parties are sensible and compassionate, it can be a very good idea.

Re: Do pre-nups ruin the romance of marriage?

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think it's any different than having insurance, retirement savings, or a living will. It's a good idea and pretending it's in a special category and can be ignored is taking a risk.

Re: Do pre-nups ruin the romance of marriage?

[dancingmouse]

Not really, no? I personally think it's a good idea.

I mean, I can see how it may seem a little weird to some people, like the whole " Let's spend the rest of our lives together! But wait, sign this paper just in case we end up separating." but yeah, in the long run, it can save a lot of headache and wasted time.