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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-17 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3332 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3332 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(David Bowie)


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(Great British Bake Off for Sports Relief, Ed Balls)


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[Pokemon]


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[Star Wars: TFA]


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[Damian Lewis, Dick Winters, Band Of Brothers]


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[Daughter of the Lilies]


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[David Eddings]


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[Sengoku Basara]


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[JJBA]


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[Men In Black I, II, III]
















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belladonna_took: richard armitage (Default)

Re: Rant/vent thread

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2016-02-18 04:01 am (UTC)(link)
Yes to all of that. Yes.

I really don't like how unimportant recovery is perceived to be for new mothers, too. My friend called me crying because her family left her by herself and she couldn't hold the baby for very long because she was so sore and she felt like she was doing the wrong thing by the baby and I was like, oh my god woman. Get back in bed. You'd better be in that bed when I get there.
God forbid you should not leap up from the hospital bed ready to do everything yourself the very day you pop out the kid.
Any other medical procedure, and people would be like "get lots of rest!" but if it's childbirth it's more like "get up and do all the things!".

I dislike the idea that deviating from the ideal image of motherhood makes you a bad person or woman or mother.