[ SECRET POST #3335 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3335 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Red Dead Redemption, The Witcher 3: Wild Hunt)


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02. [repeat]


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03.
[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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04.
[One Direction, "What Makes You Beautiful"]


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06.
[Hanayome wa Motodanshi]


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07.
[Driver: San Francisco, Jun and Ayumu]


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08.
[Naruto]


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10.
[Ash Ketchum/Professor Oak]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 070 secrets from Secret Submission Post #477.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: How come you can't say ANYTHING about feminism

[(Anonymous)]

As soon as someone goes "as a feminist, I..." and makes that their singular priority over everything else including other people and relationships, they're not actually looking for discussion or advice. They're looking for backpats and echo chamber agreement. As proven by the thread above where every single suggestion is rejected and every question is answered defensively.

I don't even care about radfems but I'd like people to be honest about when they want commiseration and when they want advice, so I can ignore them.

Re: How come you can't say ANYTHING about feminism

[(Anonymous)]

I tell you what I'll do. I'll post the first suggestion I got, then I'll highlight all the bits that were inflamatory, insulting, or designed to make a person defensive, and we'll see what you think:

"Not that I agree with MRA shit, but...

How about instead of avoiding the topic, you actually engage with him Implying I didn't already do this, and didn't say I already did this like an adultImplying I'm acting childishly and find out why he feels it necessary to keep watching these things? What's the real reason he wants to hear/see those opinions? You can't know while you're avoiding the subject. implying I'm being irrational and just ignoring the problem

Ostensibly this is someone you care about. And if you care about the whole person, surely you feel that their personal opinions and viewpoints are worth entertaining? If not, I'm afraid the "dump him" advice is the best option, Giving me advice I explicitly said I couldn't use because he probably deserves someone who does. Implying I'm the problem. Implying he is better than I am and deserves better than me"

Re: How come you can't say ANYTHING about feminism

[(Anonymous)]

lol wow, you just want us to agree with you so much, don't you.

Re: How come you can't say ANYTHING about feminism

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

I already told you what I think and using the tone argument on someone else doesn't change it.

Re: How come you can't say ANYTHING about feminism

[(Anonymous)]

It's very apparent all you want to hear is that you're right and he's being unreasonable and it's not wrong for you to want to control what he watches. Or just anything that enables you as a victim of everything.

Sorry. The world isn't your echochamber. You asked for advice and you got it.