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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-20 04:20 pm

[ F!S Anon Meme (the ??th!) ]

F!S Anon Meme (the ??th!)


Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with captchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff. If you want me to link your thread up here, drop a link in the first comment!

List of threads:

Favorite FSers
Your diehard fandoms
NSFW confession thread
Topics you wish FS would stop wanking about
What do you want FS to talk about more?
(Pan)fandom discussion post
General opinions
Fapping material?
Random rants

Re: NSFW Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-02-20 10:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a similar problem, nonny. My partner and I are generally compatible in life, but he's always had a lower sex drive than me and it's only gotten worse with the years. And the sad thing is...when we do it's just...boring, and unimaginative.

And yes I've brought this up, but you can only do that so much before it's basically whining.

Re: NSFW Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-02-20 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Ayrt

Yep. I love him and we are best friends, but I want to be best friends with benefits too and my benefits package sucks. I think I'm a lot of work because I'm really subby, but one of those whiny, demanding subs, but I don't want everything. I just want a little. I'm into objectification so if he wants to just stick his fingers out while I fuck them like he doesn't matter (or, like I don't matter, however my mind wants to play it), that'll do me.

Re: NSFW Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-02-20 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
It's funny, because I'm actually coming at it from the other end, and I used to be a Domme... but honestly I knew he wasn't kinky rigt off the bat, which is fine, I made that choice. But I was at least hoping for frequent, enthusiastic sex.

Re: NSFW Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not whining. There's a problem in your relationship and your partner is refusing to address it. That's like having a house with a hole in the roof and dealing with the rain coming through and making all your stuff a soggy, moldy mess, but your partner refuses to talk about fixing it. Pointing out the problem and how much trouble it's causing isn't whining.