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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-20 04:20 pm

[ F!S Anon Meme (the ??th!) ]

F!S Anon Meme (the ??th!)


Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with captchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff. If you want me to link your thread up here, drop a link in the first comment!

List of threads:

Favorite FSers
Your diehard fandoms
NSFW confession thread
Topics you wish FS would stop wanking about
What do you want FS to talk about more?
(Pan)fandom discussion post
General opinions
Fapping material?
Random rants

Re: How do I

(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Where does it come from, do you know? Often people talk excessively due to nervousness and wanting to fill empty conversational space. It sounds corny, but I'd ask a friend to practice with you, someone who's aware of your problem and who will agree to alert you when you start talking over people.

Learn to ask questions and then listen attentively, limiting your contributions to really short encouraging responses. "Oh?" "What happened then?" "What did that feel like?" "Go on." etc. etc.