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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-21 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #3336 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3336 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
this is b8 but ia with the part about how nasty the asexual community is about we filthy allosexuals so i try to avoid any sexual content made by anyone i know is asexual, idc how good it is.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Wouldn't have to call you fuckholes filthy if you weren't assholes to us. It's a two way street, sweet-cheeks.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-22 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
truly beautiful

(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
wtf is allosexual? attracted to french people when they say hello?
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[identity profile] mimi-sardinia.livejournal.com 2016-02-22 03:06 am (UTC)(link)
I just googled it - it's asexual slang for non-asexual people.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-23 07:30 am (UTC)(link)
LMAOOOO
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[personal profile] iggy 2016-02-22 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
forever lol at the idea that aces are soooo mean to allosexuals.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-22 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
Tumblr is full of homophobic aces. In fact it was a thing for ace people to whine about "allogays" being literally the worst thing and gatekeeping them...even if they were a straight ace.

Tumblr is fucked up.
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[personal profile] iggy 2016-02-22 07:09 am (UTC)(link)
I would assume that if this did happen its partly in retort to the insistence by so many gay people on tumblr that ace people don't belong in the queer community? Many of them DO gatekeep aces.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-22 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
forever lol that because you haven't seen something, it doesn't happen
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[personal profile] iggy 2016-02-22 07:06 am (UTC)(link)
if it happened with enough frequency for OP to think it's such a massive issue, then yeah, I would have seen it.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-22 03:32 am (UTC)(link)
Merely for saying I'm asexual and thus not interested in a sexual relationship, I've had people (probably 98% of whom were men) tell me:

-They hope I get raped
-I'm just a bitch with daddy issues
-I'm probably too ugly to get anyone to fuck me
-I was probably raped in the past and I repressed it
-I'm a frigid bitch
-I'm fucked in the head
-I'll be sorry when I'm old and miserable and nobody wants me
-I'm a stuck-up cunt who thinks she's too good for everyone
-Go back to tumblr you pathetic fucking attention whore

And in some ways, the worst of all of them:

-You just think you're asexual.

Now I don't think that the awful way many people treat asexuals justifies ace people generalizing about and being vitriolic towards sexual people. It doesn't. But lets not act like this is a one way street. And also, lets not presume that these ace people you're referring to, who seem to hate sexual people, are more than a small fraction of all the ace people out there. A lot of ace people don't even participate in any sort of ace community, whether online or in RL.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-22 05:14 am (UTC)(link)
cool

that's misogyny, not "acephobia" hth

(Anonymous) 2016-02-22 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
Point being, let's not with the whole "ace people are such assholes to sexual people for no reason whatsoever." It takes a really self-centered jackass to not realize that many ace people have been treated like shit by more sexual people than they can count, and that's why they're defensive to the degree where it comes out as anger.

Again, that doesn't mean it's okay to go around spewing anger at an entire, huge chunk of the population. But if you can't at least understand where those angry ace people are coming from, then I'm thinking you're at least as much the problem as they are.
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[personal profile] iggy 2016-02-22 07:11 am (UTC)(link)
Don't deny that acephobia exists. A lot of what anon mentions does fall under misogyny, but... there are intersections?? A lot of it is acephobia as well.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-23 08:43 am (UTC)(link)
Um, not really, because people say the same shit to asexual males.