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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-25 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #3340 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3340 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-25 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I have personally taken the "as long as they're both adults, not my place to judge" view in situationslike these. That said, I can still see being weirded out by it, not because of the age difference itself but because of how young she is. Yes, 19 is legal, but there is still a lot of growing up that happens in those first few years of adulthood. You don't turn 18 and suddenly you're an entirely different person, you're still finding your footing and figuring things out. Granted, it's not one-size fits all, so it's hard to know without knowing the person.

Sorry for the long-winded answer. In short, I don't think you're wrong to have judgey feeligns about this.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-25 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
This is my general view as well.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-26 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
My first serious boyfriend was 28 and I was 19. I was really fucked up and not ready for anything, on top of having undiagnosed BPD. I'll always hate how he went for me because I was "fresh meat".

(Anonymous) 2016-02-26 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

And that's one person, and not every man/woman ever who's dating someone younger?

(Anonymous) 2016-02-26 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
My first serious boyfriend and I had a similar age gap. We're married now and have been happily married for twelve years. I'm sorry your relationship didn't go well, but I think that's got more to do with your ex than his age.