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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-25 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #3340 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3340 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Xena: Warrior Princess]


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[MLP:FIM]


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[What's My Line?]


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(Anonymous) 2016-02-26 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe it's awesome and will last, maybe it won't. And either outcome could be influenced by a thousand different things.

From what I've heard there are a few things abusive people frequently do when they're taking a younger partner like playing up how mature the younger person is ("So you'll be cool about X, because you're not like the other people your age") or using it as a weapon to keep them from setting boundaries ("I'm older and have more experience so I know you're just being silly about all that wanting to be respected nonsense.")

But then again, plenty of abusive scabsuckers do manipulative stuff like that without needing to go after a younger person. And plenty of good people do happen to fall for someone older or younger. Sometimes they make it work, sometimes they don't. Sometimes people the same age make it work, and sometimes they don't.

There's nothing really wrong with speculating, as long as you don't fall into the trap of assuming you can tell everything about someone else's relationship from just their ages.

Or, if you can, you should find some way to market that talent and make a bundle!