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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-25 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #3340 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3340 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-26 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
"I'm curious where the cut off is for an age difference to start then. Everyone's pointing out about brain chemistry changing until you're 24 (in general), so is it 'skeevy' for a 23 year old to date a 33 year old because they're still a year below the brain cut off?"
I'm the anon who posted the link to an article about the research above. It is definitely a "in general" thing, so I don't think there can be a hard and fast rule about it really, as some might hit that brain maturity a couple of years earlier and some might hit it later. I do think that it is more about how the person thinks and acts rather than a set age. However, 19 is really young, and there are few 19 year olds who are mature, even if they think they are.

Honestly, even if the 19 year old (or whatever year old) isn't fully mentally mature, I don't think it is a problem as long as the older person is respectful of them and mindful of the disparity. But it is definitely something that should be considered. (And there are times I still find it a little off. Like when my 60-something uncle was dating someone in her young 20s. She was an adult, but it was weird.)

(Anonymous) 2016-02-26 06:48 am (UTC)(link)
Perfect comment is perfect. Could not agree more.