[ SECRET POST #3342 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3342 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 081 secrets from Secret Submission Post #478.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - random meme ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

12. http://i.imgur.com/CeSoGw6.png

[(Anonymous)]

I don't see why this is a problem if you're respectful to real life trans people and plan on being respectful to real life trans people when you try to hook up with them. Porn is porn.

[(Anonymous)]

I.E. Don't be like OP of #10.

[(Anonymous)]

if you're actually interested in a trans person's opinion on this, it can't be that bad. besides, I'm guessing that trans man prefer having a (sexual) partner that is attracted to them, even if that is because of biological attributes.

[(Anonymous)]

Indeed, there are some trans guys who really enjoy the intrinsic genderfuckery of their bodies and sexuality. Buck Angel being one obvious example, of course.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm a trans guy, and honestly- fetishes are fetishes are fetishes. They just are. It's like Lolicon- there are guys (and girls) out there that can't get enough, but would sooner set themselves on fire than do anything with a real live child, or even have feelings like that towards actual children. I hate the demonization of 'problematic kinks' because people truly cannot help what turns them on. I think some fetishes can be explained away by things we learn and are exposed to, but the majority are just.. random neurons firing in the sexy department. Do what you want. Don't feel bad about it. And if you find a ready and willing trans guy who isn't put off by your sexual preoccupation with his trans body, go for it. There's even a chance that you'll find the actual sex doesn't come close to what you've been reading/watching and that it's just an odd free-floating fantasy kink you have. Not every fetish translates to real life in the same way as in your brain.

[tabaqui]

+1 million.

[(Anonymous)]

I have a fairly sfw kink, something like tickling. Cartoons of tickling? OHGODYES. Written descriptions? I'll be in my bunk.

Real life seeing tickling, tickling, being tickled? DONOTWANT. Not a turn on, in the slightest.

I was actually surprised the first time I realized some people with fetishes actually want RL versions of their fetish. It was so alien to me.

[(Anonymous)]

There's even a chance that you'll find the actual sex doesn't come close to what you've been reading/watching and that it's just an odd free-floating fantasy kink you have. Not every fetish translates to real life in the same way as in your brain.

Okay so I swear I'm not secret OP (and it's kind of freaking me out lol) but I am a gay cisgender guy who is currently dating a trans guy. I didn't seek out my partner because he was trans, but I've never discriminated against dating trans guys either, and would occasionally enjoy some porn with trans guys in it.

But yeah, if OP has never had sex with someone with a front hole before, and it already sounds like he's pretty intrinsically attracted...I highly doubt the sex is going to disappoint. #o_____o# Without being really explicit, my boyfriend's is the first front hole I've ever been near, and...I had to really, really curb myself from being like "I now want sex all day every day", and to make sure we got lots of anal sessions in there too because he enjoys that as much as, if not slightly more than, sex with the front hole. It's just a really, really different (and really freaking good) sensation. It's kind of the difference between someone giving you a hand job with their thumb and forefinger squeezed pretty tight around your penis, or someone using their whole fist and just not squeezing quite as hard (my boyfriend does some professional kegel shit so this isn't an issue either, but he's showed me how it feels when he's not actively working those muscles and it feels like the above).

[(Anonymous)]

Trans man, checking in.

...So, I don't see a problem with being "curious", but I do see a problem if you're curious for the same reason you might be curious about futa or something (ie. you're curious because you think the way the relationship/hookup might work would be the same way it works in porn).

Porn is not real life, so don't go looking for trans guys thinking you're going to live out your porn fantasy. On the other hand, there's no harm in going for a craigslist or grindr hookup as long as you're respectful of pronouns, turn offs, no-fly zones, and you don't take any preconceived notions along with you, and you don't let one experience with a trans person color your view of what every other one wants.

tl;dr as long as you're not a dick about it, go ahead and live your dreams.

[(Anonymous)]

Have you seen the autobio comic a few years ago about the gay man who tends to date short guys, and somehow ended up being the gay guy with the trans boyfriend? That was pretty cute.

[(Anonymous)]

This sounds interesting. Link?

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT

I think they're talking about this comic:

http://comics.billroundy.com/?p=1116

It really is cute, and it's honestly an important thing to have gay men who are attracted to and date trans men speak out. The gay community isn't exactly known for it's political correctness regarding trans people. :/

[(Anonymous)]

Number 10 and 12 are so a shoddy social experiment xD .

[(Anonymous)]

It's like a Goofus and Gallant of How To Negotiate Trans Issues.

[(Anonymous)]

Just probably don't go asking trans guys for boob pics unless you're actually looking forward to fairly.... uh... shit, I don't know a good way to describe them that doesn't sound like I'm bashing them, but a guy's not that likely to have pretty hairless perky tits.

Also if you go asking for boob pics he's probably going to laugh about it to his friends later.

[(Anonymous)]

guess this secret brings all the transmen to the yard?

ngl anon you're the unicorn I'm looking for in my life. you give me hope that there might be a gay or bi man out there willing to do more than just overlook the parts of me I wish I didn't have. but enjoy me for who I am, really like me for being a transman? please be real, please don't be a troll.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think you're bad. You have a type or a fetish. Relax. Most of us have them. As long as you ask with respect, you just do you, OP!